BM seeking WW

For years this debate has been an issue and maybe in more years to come it will continue to be an issue. Some are quite tired of this debate so am I must say but probably for different reasons.
 What debate you ask???

BLACK MEN IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH WHITE WOMEN

Why is this a big issue in the black community? 
Should someone not be able to have a preference whether it be fat, skinny, black white or a one legged dog?
 HELL YEAH!!!
I am a firm believer of love knows no age, race, gender or colour....... in other words you never know  who you fall in love with, love has its way of sneaking up on you and before you know it, it has knocked you for six.
So what is my issue you ask?? 
For the last year or so this has come to my attention many black men and boys say one or both of the following terms
"That’s what I mean about black women" followed by a list of negative things that black women are
 "It’s so difficult to have a relationship with a black woman"

Now as a black woman that really annoys me, this negative stereotype that some black men are putting on black women is just completely sad and disheartening. 

I have had a conversation with a black guy whose friends is enjoying blissful relationships with white women, in turn he also said that those same friends who previously had relationships with black women did not work out because of the women and their "Black ways"* (not being supportive, argumentative, sexually inhibited and just plain old loud/ghetto whatever you want to call it) So in other words his conclusions were in order to have a blissful relationship and to avoid the above list then you should not have a relationship with a black woman

Yes shocking but true can you imagine how many black men out there that have that kind of mentality.

Now when I heard this I was speechless, flabbergasted, annoyed and sad all in one. I mean are you serious???????

Not being supportive 
Argumentative 
Sexually inhibited
Plain old loud/ghetto

Are not just human traits, but black women traits
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For years women are out there attacking white women like they are the enemy, ladies the white woman is not your enemy.

I have yet to come across a white man who is dating a black woman put down his white counter-part.
As I said before I am a firm believer of love knows no age, race, gender or colour. 
But if you have premeditated thoughts and actions of avoiding a black woman when you are a black man because you THINK all black women are a certain way THEN THAT IS WHERE MY ISSUE LIES.

The saying if you sleep with dogs you will catch fleas 
the operative word is dog it does not single out one breed of dog its talking about all dogs.

So therefore if you keep seeing the same kind of women I don’t mean colour wise I mean personality wise, or keep meeting women in a particular place you will get the same result. 

Now if you choose to sleep with A nice kept dog and the dog happens to be a golden retriever don’t automatically think that all golden retrievers don’t have fleas. 

I mean come on guys, as I said this debate is getting old and tiring, and some of these black men notions are just plain DUMB.

I have learned not let this effect me because some will have their way of life and sometimes it does not fit into yours so all you can do is just walk on.

Peace & love